Sorry no pictures. My camera card was lost. I'll post some pics later when my sis sends me copies of her pics. Bare with me ...I know it's a lot to read.
Wednesday
Mom & Robert flew in from
Hawai'i! The first of our family to arrive! Exciting! I was so happy that mom's health held up, so she could witness my special day. I was very worried that she wouldn't and shouldn't come with her white blood cell count being low from chemo treatments. However, just days before she was to fly out to Utah....her blood tests revealed that her count was back to normal!! Yes! I still made her wear medical masks on the plane! Poor mom...she had to assure her plane neighbors that she didn't have swine flu.
LOL! I was also worried about what she looked like with her "cat" on her head. Mom had to get a wig after her first round of chemo, and I hadn't seen it yet. I was impressed....it looked very similar to her real hair style. Mom and Robert was excited to land in Utah....being only their second trip here.
From the airport we went to
RUMBI's! I was excited that they remembered and enjoyed the food there. Of course, how could they forget...it was at
Rumbi's...same time last year....that mom got to see her first snow fall! All the crazy Hawaiians (Craig's
ohana too) ran in and out of the restaurant to play in the sprinkles of snow. Good times!
For dinner mom wanted to eat at Sizzlers. Still one of her favorite places to eat (minus their steaks). She and I enjoyed the salad bar...of course NOTHING like Sizzlers salad bars back home...but oh well.
Teia insisted on sitting next to her Grannie.
Wednesday night dad and mom Lindsey arrived! Yeah! I always love seeing them. How was
Teia going to act now...two grandmas to spoil her. I spent the rest of the night bugging my mom about whether or not my sis was going to surprise me and come to my graduation. I finally came to the conclusion that my mom really didn't know because maybe my sis was afraid that she would "spill the beans." My mom thought I was crazy and went to bed.
Craig and I stayed up trying to figure out if Mel was coming. We analyzed over and over different conversations we had with family members and different possible scenarios for her possible "SURPRISE" arrival. Then I got smart....I'll call her office and her machine will say..."You've reached the office of Melanie Silva. Sorry, but I'll be out of the office from.....Thursday April 30
th til......" then I'll know for sure! Nope! It had the usual greeting. Okay...I know...we'll send her an email to her job and we'll get a reply back saying "Out of office reply." Nope! Never got an email back. Okay...I'll call her house...then I'll know! Lionel (my bro in-law) answers and tells me that Mel's out with her friend
Cui and the kids "should be in bed."
Hmmmm.....out with
Cui and it's almost 9 pm......and Mel works tomorrow. Craig and finally decided at almost 2 am Thursday that we over analyzed the different conversations we had (that led us to our suspicions of her coming) and that she couldn't possibly be coming (for certain reasons). So we went to bed.
Thursday
Woke up to my cell phone ringing. It's Mel. Oh no! What's wrong with Grandma?
Me: Mel
Mel: Hey, you're BIG package is at the airport. Can you come pick it up?
Me: What?
Mel: I'm at the airport. Can you get me?
Me: What? Not!
Mel: I'm tired and I'm cold. Can you come get me?
Me: Get back in the airport.
Mel: I am in the airport! It's cold!
Me: You're not at the airport...I can't hear airport noises??
Mel: It's quiet here.
Me: Are you
foreal? You're at the
airport! (my emotions finally
kickin' in)
Me: Oh my gosh! Kay, I'm coming in pajamas is that okay. Craig and I are coming now! (good thing
gramma and papa
Lindsey took the kids to the hotel for a sleep over). We should be there in 40 minutes!
I wanted to open my apt door and scream as loud as I could. My whole body was rushing with extreme excitement. Like I had just won a million dollars! I had! My sis was here! Her first trip to Utah ever! She was coming to MY graduation! We get to SHOP together for her temple clothes! My sister was HERE IN UTAH!!! I told Craig no time for brushing teeth.....chew gum and lets go! We zoomed there as fast as we could! I was EXTREMELY thrilled to greet my sister at the cold and quiet airport. Poor girl hadn't slept at all...red eye flight from Honolulu. She explained to me that her
hunny and mom in-law were the only two people that knew. She didn't even tell the kids until the night she was leaving. Poor thing.
Okay so Mel is here! Mel and the family go to
Kimani's school program. He had a part in the show, and family to share this moment with. How special. I zoomed off to the airport for the 3rd time in 24 hours to pick up my 3rd mom and family (Mel's in-laws). How lucky! All three of my moms (and families) and my SIS came to share this special accomplishment with me!
We spent the rest of the day hanging out together, SHOPPING with my sis,
BBQing, and the older folks sang karaoke all night. I took Mel and Ronnie boy (also baptized last year) up to the Provo temple to get pictures. They loved it! Mom Ho (3rd mom) sat in the Jeep singing gospel music at the top of her lungs...hoping no one could hear her!
Christy and the kids made the drive over from Idaho! I was so happy they could make it and celebrate with me! It's always extra special to have the cousins together. They get along well (no referee needed), have lots of fun, and stay up later then the adults. BTW....they're 8, 6, 5, and 3 and they party it up.
The night before graduation...it was past 11pm and I zoomed to Wally world (
Wal-Mart) to get nylons (how could I forget?) and take Willie and Ronnie shopping. They only brought warm clothes and was dying of heat.
Friday!
Graduation day! Oh happy day! Wow! I had wardrobe malfunctions before even heading out the door! My graduation cap kept falling off my head and my nylons kept rolling down my legs. I gave the good pair I bought to my sis who also forgot about nylons and she's 10 times thinner then me! I had to wear the junk pair (knee highs) that were too big for me that I bought by accident.
Ugghh. I
couldn't even get to the truck without having to stop and fix those darn things. The family found it amusing!
Graduation commencement was AMAZING! The best feeling was walking out from the underground tunnel into the McKay with thousands of people looking at you as you marched between the lined up professors looking at you with the biggest smiles. The air was so cool and although I was among thousands of other graduates...I felt like this was MY MOMENT!! I loved that feeling! As I marched ahead ....I could see him! President
Monson! He was there with his sweet wife standing up looking at us graduates march in. COOLEST! My sister and Ronnie get to see President
Monson in person! Rare thing for new converts living in
Hawai'i. I kept waving to my
ohana! I loved looking back at them and waving with excitement!
How special it was to see the prophet get honored at MY graduation! He and his wife were the Honorary Degree Recipients at our graduation...the first graduating class as
UVU....the biggest graduating class in school history as well! President
Monson spoke to us graduates about glancing backward, reaching outward, and pressing forward. Truly a prophet of the Lord. Let me tell you how good it felt to be able to clap as long as I wanted and as loud as I wanted for the prophet! Very rare do we get the opportunity being we most often only see and hear from him in reverence. The whole events center repeatedly stood up for him, clapped for him, and cheered for him. Okay...and one graduate did pass out and was carried away. The whole First Presidency was there to witness our graduation. That was special!
After commencement we headed to convocation, so I could get my diploma! I got "lei-d" before heading into convocation. It felt so good to be in Utah graduating, but still have the culture of
Hawai'i with me. Special! Special! Even more special! My mommy brought 10 leis from
Hawai'i for me to give to all my special friends that helped me survive the nursing program. I loved being able to share my culture with them! The excitement of the day and hours of graduation was starting to wear on everyone. Thank you to my
ohana and Sarah for hanging in there! Thank you tons to the
Kaufusi's who made candy leis....the family ate them during graduation to hold them up through the hours.
hee hee! The tears finally came when my name was said and I marched up stage to get my diploma. The dean of nursing was trying to talk to me about my leis as she touched them in admiration...and I couldn't speak a word to her. Then the dean of College of Science and Health took a picture with me and I can't even remember ever seeing a camera to smile at. My tears blinded my sight and washed out my brain. Then when I approached the end of the stage....there was my dad (in-law) standing with his camera to snap the first shot with me holding my diploma. I smiled big! Then I saw my family standing directly above me and I flashed the proud
shaka! I was SO
STINKIN' HAPPY!!!
After graduation we went home to kill some time before dinner. I was surprised that I had gifts and cards to open. I thought the lei's and the family was present enough! I'm so lucky! I got really special gifts, special cards with special words, songs, and special recordings that brought me to tears. And of course KALA (money)!
I refused to have a graduation luau and told Craig don't even think about throwing me a surprise one. Thank goodness...I think it was too much work and money for him to pull off. I just wanted to go to
Tucanos to celebrate. The best
restaurant! The family REALLY ENJOYED it. The first time for most of them! They're still talking about the yummy Brazilian food. Then most of the family headed to Fat
Catz to bowl, shoot pool, and play games. Some of the ladies went....SHOPPING.
Saturday
The guys already had it planned out that we weren't going to involve them in our shopping plans. They guys went to see
Xmens Wolverine. The ladies went SHOPPING! We went to look for Mel's temple dress and white clothes for the rest of her family. When we were done with that we had to head to
Joanns (craft store) for some ribbon Mel needed. And now I have to share the following story.
So we pull into
Joanns parking lot and I look for a handicap parking spot cause Mom Ho had a handicap parking pass. We
spocked one out...cool! I'm
getting ready to turn right into the lane that had the handicap stall...which BTW was all the way down the other end of the lane. So anyone
could've got there before we did. So I'm getting ready to turn right....I had the right away....and a car headed down towards me wanted to turn right too...the driver was old and I thought I'd be nice and let her turn down the lane first. So I motioned for her to go ahead of me. She motioned back for me to go ahead of her ( I had the right away anyway...there was no need for me to stop for her). So I went ahead and as soon as I made the turn down the lane I saw a flashback of the ladies handicap pass
hanging from her review mirror. I immediately thought, "Oh no! She needs that handicap stall too!" BTW...still someone else
could've got to the stall before us if they were turning down the end it was closest too. So I'm thinking oh we need that stall and she needs that stall and she's old. Poor thing! I pull in and keep telling the family in my car (mommy, Mel, mom (in-law) and mom Ho &
Teia too)...."Oh, but she's old!" Anyways, they all get out of the car and I'm feeling bad that we got the handicap stall first and we watch the lady STRUGGLE to park. She came inches from side swiping the car next to her. The old lady finally parks and comes out of her car. I'm half hiding in the truck, but trying to get
Teia out SLOWLY....feeling bad and not wanting to see the ladies face...and cracking up laughing at the situation.
Every one's out of the car except me and
Tei. And the OLD LADY DARED! She comes walking over to our stall and tells everyone standing there...."I let you go and you took my spot!" WHAT LADY??? Mom Ho says something back like this, "
Yah, and you did a
terrific job parking your car! Good job!" I was just shocked at what that lady said! First lady, we had the right away to turn FIRST (she truly didn't let us go). Second, anyone
could've got to that stall before either of us. Third, what makes her handicap better (worse) that she could have the stall over mom Ho. Fourth, why is it HER spot! I'm telling you! I just felt bad because she was old and I knew she wanted to park there too. Mom Ho said if the old lady said anything more she would said back ..."I didn't see your name on the parking spot lady!"
LOL!!!! What a memory!
So SHOPPING, MORE SHOPPING. BTW...the guys did do some shopping of their own. They got spoiled by Willie (Mel father in-law) at the
Fanzz store. They got
Lakers jerseys and
Tshirts. I took the ladies to Cafe Rio! I was so excited to take them there that it was MY TREAT! Mom Lindsey has been there a few times and loves that place too. Saturday night we headed to the hotel pool and enjoyed some delicious
chocolate cake from Cold Stone.
Sunday
We literally had to speed up to SLC to take the family to Music & the Spoken Word. Mom Ho said I was doing 90 mph. They must see the Morman Tabernacle Choir sing in person! Then we took the family around Temple Square. I still couldn't get over the blessing of having my sister in the gospel and seeing her appreciate Temple Square the way we do. Willie had fun making new friends and talking to everyone. Truly a man with the "Aloha spirit." After temple square we headed to the Sports Grill and Bar at the Gateway for lunch. It was Mom Ho's last meal in Utah and she wanted American food. They have ono food! Ever try the Monster Burger? It can seriously feed 6 people! Poor Kimani and Ronnie who decided to share the burger...they looked overwhelmed with the task. Then we took Mel SHOPPING! Notice a theme yet? My family was always shopaholics (thanks to mom). My sis has carried that tradition on. I knew she would enjoy the Gateway. Ki played in the Olympic water show as always. It was fun to have my sis make the move from the hotel to my apt. The kids got to hang with Aunty Mel! Mel, Tei and I had a slumber sleep in the living room.
Monday
Robert and mommy wanted to go the dinosaur museum at Thanksgiving Point. We had fun taking the kids around the museum and taking them to the IMAX dinosaur show. It was so good that everyone except Kimani fell asleep! We had lunch at their cafe...which Mel and I wasn't feeling to good about. We thought...the hotdogs should be the safest thing to eat. BOY WERE WE WRONG!!! Don't eat there. I'll tell you why in a second. After the museum we did some SHOPPING and then we headed to the Olive Garden for dinner. Another first for Mel. Before we could finish our meal...Mel was hit with sudden and SEVERE abdominal cramping. She was about to pass out and she was sweating. She ended up spending her first trip to the Olive Garden in the bathroom with FOOD POISONING!! Yes! Those hotdogs from the cafe at the Dinosaur museum. Well it would take even a longer story to explain how we knew it was that. Just take our word for it.
Monday night we hung out with my family...enjoying the last hours with them.